Oh thanks so much Cai! I'm crying about this AGAIN because I just HATE the fact that I am classed as high risk, I hate the fact that I am a chicken and DH is scared to home birth too, and I just don't know what my best option is.
Birralee is Box Hill Cai sorry, that's what their maternity ward is called. When I had my over the phone triage with a midwife the other day she basically said, yes we midwives will support you wholeheartedly, but majority of the doctors will not. They will try to book in my c/s at my first appointment at 15 weeks so if I decide to go there you can bet I will be going in with all my studies and research on hand to shove in their narrow minded surgery focused puny brains.
Cai is there any hospital in Melbourne you would recommend I try to look at or do you think I should just arm myself with great people and research like you said and brave Box Hill or the Mercy? It really sounds like unless I move to Warrigul my options are limited.
I've also been thinking about seeing a pro-VBAC ob - thats going to take a bit of convincing for DH though, but the doula is a done deal - now just to choose from my fabulous options here!!
Ugh I'm so glad I have a bit of time to decide!
Thanks again for all your advice everyone!!


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I can't wait to follow your journey. You can do it hun!!!!!!


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