Sonya, I'm so sorry hun xxx
There are no words that are good enough right now, but know that I'm feeling for you xxx
Take care of yourself this weekend... and have a fantastic bottle of wine or something extra naughty over dinner tonight
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Originally Posted by sonya1
and to top it all of, my SIL who has always competed with us has now gone off the pill and is trying for another. she falls preg easily and will be expecting in no time. its sad that all the continued questions about IVF were only tactical reasons. i didnt tell her about any of this cycle until last week so she had decided not to try again, but now she knows we trying again, so is she. it aggravates me, but maybe i am just being self-centred and selfish.
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Just wanted to say don't be silly... you are MOST DEFINATELY NOT selfish and self centred... I have someone exactly the same in my life too... 1st baby conceived within a few weeks of our first transfer.... 2nd baby conceived the same time as our last transfer
I understand the annoyance of the competing
I get it with everything... how much $$ we have compared to them, how much I weigh compared to her, what our car is ike compared to theirs... how much time PIL spend with them as opposed to us.... I'm hearing you xxx
The hardest part to take is how much they relish in their success of 'one up on you'
Don't let it get to you hun... you are so much the better person for not competing from your side... and take some advice from my DH... Don't tell absolutley anyone in the family anything that you don't want those particular family members to know!!!
I swear our next cycle, anyone on DH's side will be so ignorant to anything going on....
Lots and lots of love your way sweetheart xxx