Sue
thank you for your reply - I'm so sorry for your losses

it just plain sux, (sorry I just can't thing of any better words for it). I am now seeing a new acupuncturist; my third, but this one specialises in fertility issues. 3 of my 4 pregnancies were during a course of acupunture - who knows maybe it really does help. We are thinking IVF sometime this year - Oct if not pg spontaneously by then.
Katie
I'm so sorry for the loss of your little one.

I am seeing a F/S in Bris who has CREI qualifications - so far I have had some recurrent loss tests - clotting, antibody tests. I don't specifically know of any recurrent loss specialists in Bris, but the CREI qualification does include treatment of recurrent loss. F/S has not pushed IVF on us - which I suppose is a good sign that F/S is not in it just for the money.
Thank you for the invitation to join the group, I'll pop in from time to time - at the moment my head is spinning with 'stuff', I'm not good at keeping up with people. Sort of reflects real life - just keeping a low profile at the moment.