Hun, I hear ya, I do.
Honestly, the best thing to do is not bother. You don't have to justify your choices and it's bloomin hard listening to people who clearly have no idea what they are bagging, bagging your well thought out and researched plans.
So don't tell them anything until AFTER the birth. Then you can cheerily say "oh yes s/he was born underwater it was a wonderful experience maybe you should try it!
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