Your birth plan sounds great.
You're including your partner and son aswell, which I think is fantastic.
People should keep their comments to themselves. It's nothing to do with them. They aren't the ones going through it.
I never had anyone ask me about how I plan to give birth last time or this time.
I think they know I won't tell them either way. Lol. We don't even tell people the names we have picked out, so we don't get their comments.
I can't believe anyone would be trying to push you to have some wine when you declined. That's crazy.
Good luck with everything and I hope you have a H&H rest of your pg!!!
Btw, WOW Purplemamma - 5 drug free births! You go girl!