I know loads of people in your situation who tell people nothing. They just say they are having the baby at the xx hospital and thats that. If they ask about drugs, 'We'll see how we go.' Sad to be so elusive but so many do this then tell them afterwards about the birth to save all the stress. I feel your frustration!!!
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Kelly Winder
Creator of BellyBelly.com.au & the BellyBelly Pregnancy Centre
Birth Attendant (not taking new clients for 2008/2009) and Single Mum to Two Gorgeous Children
"Ante-natal care has degenerated to antenatal scare. There has been far too much focus on the worst-case scenario to the point where our thinking has become distorted and we've lost sight of normality." -- Dr Andrew Bisits, Director, Obstetrics Unit, John Hunter Hospital (Newcastle).
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