I love your birth plan Kell. Must get one together myself because I know exactly what I want and don't want be it a c/s or natural.
I reckon the way to go it to either distance yourself from the negative people or if the conversation turns to labour and birth, change it quick smart. I think that distancing yourself is the go, because I am a big believer in the power of positive thinking and interfering, negative comments do not help at all.
My birth is so up in the air atm I am confused myself as each doctor that I see has a different opinion. But in the begining I had MIL try to plan my c/s around her holiday and DF's DD saying it doesn't suit her because she has exams - well stiff s**t, don't come up, it doesn't bother me none LOL..
Good luck.
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Sue 33 & DF 40
DS 15 - DD 13 - DS 10

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