now I know your DS personally, and I must say he is the most beautiful little boy I have ever met. He is intelligent, gentle and I think developmentally above average, not behind! I know other little boys a lot older than Alec and they are just the same, I thinkits called being a little boy.
However, I do understand what you are saying. With Max, I had bleeding for over 8 weeks, and I was too scared to even pick Shelby up, I spent most of my day in the toilet not playing with Shelby like I should of. Then when I fell pregnant with Sam, I was too scared to do anything for fear that I would loose him. So Shelby for the first time ever watched television, and a lot of it. And I have felt guilty about it ever since. Now I have Sam who is very demanding and was since birth, so poor Shelby has been shoved to the side again, but she adapts very well. .
He will be fine, dont feel guilty anymore.
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Clare xxx
DD - Shelby,  - Max
DS - Samuel
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