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Trying To Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss Trying to conceive after a loss or miscarriage is something that takes enormous strength and courage. Talk about your experiences and feelings here.


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Old June 27th, 2008, 12:41 AM
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Can't wait to hear those results, betty! Saying lots of for you!!!
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got BT back and hcg is 31 and i looked it up and it said that was good for 10 dpo.
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That's fantastic news, BettyBoop. You are officially UTD!
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Congrats on the BT results, betty!!!
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Old June 27th, 2008, 07:46 AM
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Hey Jen - you're still above that coverline, sista!
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WTH--I know, but isn't it supposed to go up if you're pg? I don't know, I don't feel like it's all hopeless, but I just don't want to hang onto that one piece of hope so much that I'm completely devastated if/when AF shows! KWIM?
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Ok folks sorry I didnt update last time, lets just say it was an emotional month when I got my AF.
I have since been to the GP and Fertility specialist and am awaiting a lap/dye . (August this year I should be in surgery). Until then I continue to TTC.

I am currently on day 21/ 22 (according to me 22) of my cycle therefore I would say from day 16 ov (from OPK tests and my own sensations as I refuse this month to temp chart).. that would be
6/7 DPO (shall we say 6.5 dpo to make it inbetween?).

Yes I have been stupid enough to test DUH!! Of course BFN...

Symptoms? Yep sore boobs but then they seem to haunt me and an urge to pee,...
heres hoping I guess.
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I totally know what you mean! And to add to the tension all of us (well-meaning gals) on BB has such high hopes for you this month!

My numbers did not look like any chart I could find on FF. I appear to have had a two-day implantation dip. A good thing about your chart is that I have read that women who have a triphasic pattern, without conceiving on that cycle, tend to fall PG sooner. I have just scouted around on the Net looking for where I read that but couldn't find it. When I do I promise I will send you the link x
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WTH--Thanks, hun, you're sweet! And, don't worry, you girls aren't causing any more tension than what I'm already feeling! If anything you all help alleviate most of the tension, I couldn't do this without you all!
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RachelSwirl-- you'll get your BFP this month!!!
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RachelSwirl-- you'll get your BFP this month!!!
thank you !
I would like to be hopeful but it seems I am loosing hope these days. I have been having baby dreams which are now DOING MY HEAD IN!
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Rachel--It's easy to lose hope, I know, but don't give up! You have to fight for your dreams sometimes, and this is something that's so worth the fight! Rome wasn't built in a day... and you can't rush perfection, so keep your faith! Sending lots of big
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Jen- When are you testing again? I'm so excited to hear the news!!!! (no pressure :P)
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tutmae--Well, I tested earlier on 11 & 13DPO, both BFN. Today am 16DPO, and was really hoping I would have a nice temp jump yesterday, but it's done nothing but go down slightly yesterday and today. Started spotting yesterday, tho not much. Not really anything yet this a.m., but was a little crampy earlier, tho that's now gone. I have a feeling it won't be long before AF's knocking down my door, so I don't think I'm going to even bother wasting the money on a test. Was a little bummed because my EDD if I got pg this month was Mar.4, and my anniversary for my m/c is Mar. 5, and my b-day is Mar. 6, so I was really hoping to have another baby by my EDD (plus it was supposed to be a girl!). BUT, did the Chinese gender predictor for July, and it still says girl, so I'm ok with it--but I better at least be pg by then or it won't be a very happy b-day to me (my last one was crappy enough being the day after my m/c!)!! I love Lilah's middle name, btw... that's going to be my little one's middle name, as well (well, not if it's a boy )!
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Well, I'm still keeping my fingers crossed for you! And anything else that will cross too! But I'm sure you dont need any more pressure on you, so I'll just say if not this time then it'll definitely happen soon! This group is due for a whole heap of BFP I reckon!
And Lilah's middle name was this last minute thing. We had a completely different middle name picked out but a week before I gave birth I kept waking up thinking "Grace" and mentioned it to DH and he'd been having the same thing happen with him! We both have tattoo's of her name now, and get lots of comments. We're happy! She looked like a Lilah Grace.
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I'm out for this month. Bring on the next cycle.... Grrr!
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Well I am now 6 days from official test date apparently but of course the temptation has been pulling me towards the cupboard to grab a test... and .............BFN but with a faint faint faint line... very very very light pink. I swear its just teasing me. I know this month aint the somehow in the back of my mind. My boobs ache and I feel cramps but... nah I just dont see it happening.
To top itoff we went for a meal last night with friends andtheir new baby and it was torture... when will it ever happen I have no idea!
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