TTC after Miscarriage or Loss ~ August 08

[jen805]

Good morning tut! So happy your appt. went so well! 3 wks. 6 days-- WOO HOO!!!! Will count down your weeks with you until your u/s!!

[jen805]

Angel--Tell DH that my mom never taught me to share! And he gets you the whole rest of the day--and night--so who's the one that needs to learn to share?

[jen805]

plc--Don't be shy! I'm going to keep looking for that pic to put into my fave's, so hope you put it back up soon!



mollycat--Can't wait to check your temp this am! Hope it continues to go up and shoots right off the page! Probably an accurate read on your temp--with the probs you were having it probably would've made your temp lower instead of higher! I'm still for you sweetie!



Krystie--So did you end up using that freebie test? I'm those temps keep going up!!



Rach & Briggsy's girl--(Hey, BG, didn't we just chat the other morning, or am I completely confused?) Please don't let our busy thread scare you! It can be daunting remembering everyone, but a notebook by the computer sure does help me a lot! I'm so sorry for your losses and the reasons that bring you here. We vow to always be here for you, whenever you need us, for whatever reason! This is the chattiest, most caring, amazing group of women that I've ever met! I'm inclined to think that my m/c happened for the sole purpose of meeting this (at times) crazy bunch of girls--and while I'll forever miss my angel babies, I have to look at the things I was meant to learn through this... empathy and compassion for others, the ability to care so much about people that I've never even met... The ability to think of others before myself, and probably biggest for me is being able to put a smile on someone's face, when the last thing in the world they feel like doing is smiling! It's a humbling experience, and I'm so very honored to have you both join us on this journey! Big welcome Rach, I'm for a little sibling for Jack!!



smilanatu--Hey, girl! It's Monday again already??? Grrr! Hope you have a good one!

[Toccara50]

AF just showed up ... I'm kinda upset because I don't know what's going on with my cycle so I guess no baby for me until 09 I think I'm stay in bed for the rest of the day ...

[jen805]

Aww, Toccara.... so sorry about AF I know how frustrating it is, and how defeated you must feel--it never seems to get easier! Sending big, big and a cyber pitcher of strawberry margaritas (which you have to share with me!) Ahh, screw it, you can have the whole thing--I'll make more for me! Take care, hon, don't be too hard on yourself!

[jen805]

AJC--Congrats on your OB appt. and hearing that little So happy for you!



Sandygirl--Good luck this cycle, hon! I'm for a big brother for your DS!!! I'll pray for a sister,too, so as not to discriminate (cuz I'm sure you'll be thrilled either way)!

[smilanatu]

Happy crappy Monday! My day is already off to a yucky beginning...our server crashed over the weekend so PC access is limited...and I am spotting so I guess AF has won again...

On a more positive note...

TUTMAE!!! I am STILL doing a happy dance for you!!!

Welcome to the newbies or not so newbies according to posts counts...sorry you had to find your way back here hopefully the stay will be very short and we'll all move to PAML very soon!

jen...wow...it's definitely a Monday for me...GRRRRR

Angel Babies...please tell me there is cake left!




Okay new month...let's catch those and get some

[jen805]

jenushka--My thoughts and prayers are with you today, sweetie! Sending massive You know where we are if you need us! We're all here ready, willing, and able to give you whatever support you need!




Rachel--My thoughts and are with you, as well! Hope your lap/dye goes well, and you get some long-awaited answers!

[jen805]

smilanatu--No use with the cake--they ate it all before I could get to it! And they call me greedy guts? Had to at "happy crappy Monday"!! Sorry to hear of the spotting... sounds like AF is teasing you a little this month. Kick her in the arse smi!

[chappas]

Hi ladies, looks like i've missed out on the cake.

Rach,BG + Babyfever - So sorry to hear of your losses, Welcome hope that you get them much wanted bfp soon.
Tina- CONGRATULATIONS!!! on seeing that little HB.
Tutmae- 3wks 6d thats great news CONGRATUATIONS!!
Toccara- So sorry about AF showing her ugly face and you're feeling so low. Take care and pamper yourself
Smilanatu- Could spotting maybe be implantation

AFM- Af due tomorrow have been scanning for symptoms as usual. Took DD to cinema today and felt sick through whole film and peeing for England. Think will cave and test tm morning if af doesnt arrive.

[smilanatu]

chappas...man I WISH...but I think AF is just being her usual sneaky snake self...

I you get a HUGE

[Babyfever2007]

Toccara-Sorry your AF showed I hope that this cycle AF doesn't arrive but a BFP does. I pray that you get BFP this cycle hun...

Chappas- Oh sound's good those symptoms I hope that you get you bright beautiful BFP in the morning. I hope AF doesn't show up hun.

:wave: I hope everyone else is doing well, Sorry the personal was so short, I will be back later to check in...

[smilanatu]

Alrighty then...I am POSITIVE AF is on the way although I am having very little symptoms...

Quick rundown...Friday light pink cm when I wiped 10 DPO I just knew AF was coming a few days early...Saturday...nothing...no signs no symptoms...Sunday...all day nothing then late around 10pm pinkish/reddish discharge when I wiped...so today AF due nothing again...she's coming just making me wait...probably later tonight or tomorrow I am guessing.

I have called FS because he told me I should be pregnant by June if not we may need to discuss some alternatives to "help" us get pg...since it's August and no baby on the way...appointment September 5th...

I should probably add I did HPT 9 DPO BFN and again 11 DPO BFN...

[chappas]

Smilanatu- Seems strange that you had spotting on friday but have still got no af,have you had this happen before? When i got pregnant with dd had 3 neg tests.
Thanx for the but symptoms seem to have gone may still test though.

Babyfever- thanx to you too

[smilanatu]

chappas...I have had the pink cm twice before in the past couple of months 2 - 3 days before AF actually arrived...but this time I had the pink cm Friday and then Sunday I had pink cm streaked with red blood...and I have never had spotting every other day and no red until AF actually showed...it's all very strange. I am having some lower back ache now though...so it's amatter of time.

[pbstar]

jenushka- thinking of you today, it's going to be very hard and emotional for you. sending you extra and will be that you have the strength to get through it. we are all here for you when you are ready to chat. xoxo

[mollycat]

Toccara - Sorry AF showed her ugly face at your house. I really wish she'd get the message and not visit any of us. Haven't we told her enough.

Smilanatu and chappas - sorry we didn't leave you any cake - we had to eat it quickly before Miss Greedy Guts found it seeing as though she ate one all by herself. we'll be sure to hide a piece in the back of the cupboard next time.

[briggsy's girl]

tocarra - sorry to hear AF showed up - she's such a cow - not here when you need her to be, shows up when you don't want her - definitely an uninvited guest!!

Jen - yeah, i popped into the chat room the other night (well, morning for you!) - DH's birthday, he was drunk and i was grumpy!! not usually awake that late at night - i have chronic fatigue, so it's only when i'm highly emotional that i let myself be out of bed at that time of night (have insomnia, but i force myself to at least relax in bed) - am off work for a couple of weeks now though - to give me a chance to get my head in a better space - so with no work next day, i might be able to get myself motivated to set up the laptop in bed and chat with you lot!