I thought I would start a thread for those like me that want a comprehensive list of everything available and known side effects
The Pill (combined pill)
Advantages: can stop any time, usually regulates AF
Disadvantages: Have to remember to take it every day at around the same time, can cause bloating and weight gain, Links made to breast cancer.
The Mini Pill
Advantages: Safe for BFing
Disadvantages: not as reliable as combined pill, Have to remember to take it every day
Implanon
Advantages: Lasts 3 years, Dont have to remember to take it
Disadvantages: can cause irregular bleeding, depression and weight gain
Depoprovera
Advantages: 3 monthly, not needing to be removed
Disadvantages: Have to ride the 3 months out if it does not work for you
IUD
Advantages: 5-10 years, can't be felt
Disadvantages: will generally make you spot or bleed for around 6 weeks.
Condoms, Femdoms, Diaphagms
Advantages: last minute or backup protection, can be used in conjunction with other methods
Disadvantages: easy to forget in the heat of the moment, unreliable due to breakage, sometimes difficult to fit, especially for first timers

reduced sensation
Natural Family Planning
Advantages: Chemical free, full sensation
Disadvantages: must temp / read CM, can be unreliable during sickness or while learing to interpret signs
Please add to this because I am sure I have missed something. any advatages or disadvantages that I have missed would be useful too.