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Old July 19th, 2008, 08:09 PM
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Mel I am SO sorry to hear your story. You have amazing strength, we all know you can get through this. To lose one child is just unimaginable, but two is just incredibly cruel. I will be thinking of you.
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Old July 19th, 2008, 08:31 PM
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Old July 19th, 2008, 08:39 PM
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so sorry to hear this mel, may your boys live on in your lives forever
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oh mel,
i am so sorry to hear your sad news, please do be kind to yourself,
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Old July 19th, 2008, 09:43 PM
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Reading Joshua's story has touched me unlike nothing else I've read on this forum. I'm so very sorry. So, so unfair.
Joshua sounds like such a beautiful and special baby boy.
My heart goes out to you on the loss of Joshua and Nicholas.

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Old July 19th, 2008, 10:35 PM
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Like everyone else here I am just lost of words. I am so sorry.
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Old July 20th, 2008, 01:57 AM
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mel--I'm struggling to control my emotions after reading Joshua's story. I wish I had the magic words to say to take away your heartache...like the others I'm at a complete loss for words. All I have to offer is my deepest, most sincere condolences for the losses of both Joshua and Nicholas. I can't imagine your pain...and to go through it twice is just so unfair! My heart breaks into a million pieces for you and your family! I know when I posted my story it was so painful, yet somehow healing...I hope that sharing your story with us as bravely as you did helped in some small way to alleviate your pain. Please allow yourself to be angry and to grieve. Although we've never met, I know you have SO many friends here at BB that care about you and are here to support you! Envelope yourself into the arms of those who love you and want to help you through these darkest of days. You're in my thoughts and Your angels are in God's playground forever watching over you!
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Old July 20th, 2008, 10:03 AM
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Ladies, thank you so much for your supportive and loving messages to Mel. She needs every little ounce of love and support that we can give her at the moment.


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Thankyou Mel for sharing Josh's story with us.

I have cried so much for you. I want to say so much but nothing sounds right. So please know I have you so firmly in my heart.

Sending you love and support always...
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oh mel
i can't stop crying
my heart has absolutley broken for you, your boys, your dh

i'm just so sorry Mel
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Old July 20th, 2008, 07:06 PM
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Mel - the community of BellyBelly is always here for you. How unfair that you have had to say goodbye to two sweet little boys, My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. You had six wonderful days with a special little boy. You now have two special little boys inside your heart. They will always be watching over you and your DH. Thank you so much for sharing your special story.
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Dear Mel,
You are so amazingly brave to come back here and tell Joshua's story. It must have been so hard. I cannot find the words to tell you just how heartbroken I am that Joshua couldn't stay. I just miss him so much. It is just so, so unfair.
I am here for you whenever you need anything and I will love, remember and miss both of your boys along with you for the rest of my life.
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Mel, I had tears in my eyes reading your story. Thankyou so much for sharing it. I am so sorry you had to go through this again. I am thinking of you and your family during this very hard and unfair time, and I hope you find the strength to get through this. Your little boys would want you to

Rest in peace little Joshua.
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What a beautiful, precious and gallant little boy.

6 precious days that no-one in this world will ever be able to take away from you Mel.
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Old July 21st, 2008, 12:40 PM
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Words can not express how sorry I am for the loss of Joshua and Nicholas.
To have one baby taken away is heartbreaking, but two is just unimaginable.
My heart goes out to you and your family.
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Old July 23rd, 2008, 05:42 PM
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Old July 23rd, 2008, 05:54 PM
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We are always thinking of you, DH and your boys.
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Old July 23rd, 2008, 06:06 PM
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