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October 18th, 2008, 03:04 PM
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Goodbye precious angels...
Hi everyone,
I just wanted to post this in memory of our loved little angel babies who have flown from us....
Yesterday was a devastating day, when we went in for a scan at 8 weeks and 5 days, (after two early scans where we had seen a beautiful heartbeat) only to see our loved little one's heart had stopped beating 2-3 days before.
We wanted this baby so much. In Feb March this year I had a curette, after a missed m/c...and after that it was discovered I also had an ectopic pregnancy. I was rushed back into hospital and lost my right tube in the process...and also learnt my left tube was in very bad shape, with scarring etc. At some time I obviously had some kind of inflammation/infection and didn't even know it...I have always had severe and heavy periods and the doctor said sometimes it's therefore hard to differentiate symptoms of something more. That meant we were faced suddenly with the prospect of going through IVF to have a baby. The irony, after years of delaying having children 'until the right time' suddenly we were going to battle to have one.
Our first stimulated IVF cycle failed, and we then had a FET which was successful. We felt such joy and elation...our turn had come! It was time to rejoice and be happy.
That was until yesterday when we realised our precious baby had flown from us.
We will resume IVF when we are ready and have grieved. Life is a limbo of waiting to have a baby. I am very very sad...and also angry and bitter right now.
Sending love and light to our precious angel babies...we loved you. To our most recent angel ....the sight of your flickering heart on the screen made us fall in love with you even more....we know you tried hard to stay with us and you will never be forgotton. 
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Me 35, DH 36 plus two gorgeous poodles
2008: March 9 weeks (one ectopic, tube removed);
July IVF:BFN; Sept FET: BFP our loved 8.5 weeks18/10/08; and now
Last edited by Possums; October 18th, 2008 at 08:35 PM.
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October 18th, 2008, 03:31 PM
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I am so sorry Possums...  I know how loved and wanted your babies were and I was so sad to read your post yesterday... Please lean on us all in here and know that in time this pain will heal (though never entirely) & one day you will smile again, I promise.
Sending you loving support as you grieve your baby... 
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October 18th, 2008, 03:48 PM
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I'm so very sorry Possums. Please allow yourself to grieve and know that we are all here for you.Take care of yourself and your DH too. Also know that sometimes men handle losses completely different to us women and that is ok too... Sending you
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Sage William 23/10/07 
2 precious little
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October 18th, 2008, 03:59 PM
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Sweetie, I am ever so sorry for the loss of your angels..... please give yourself time to greive,get angry,be sad,yell scream just let it out...... really am sorry hun x
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October 18th, 2008, 04:05 PM
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Possums,
I am thinking of you and ur family hun, I will say a prayer for your angel tonight xo
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(8 weeks ectopic; 29-04-08)
Please  stick little one, mummy and daddy love you!
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October 18th, 2008, 04:20 PM
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I am so sorry!
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Nic & Simon ~ Losing thier minds together since 1995
Ethan (30.07.99) Isaac (24.09.03) Jacob (22.08.05) Olivia  (20.11.07)
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October 18th, 2008, 04:26 PM
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Always remember you're unique... just like everyone else.
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So sorry Possums. Those were beautiful words for your angel babies. Take care.
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October 18th, 2008, 07:26 PM
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sorry for your losses possums
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October 18th, 2008, 07:30 PM
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Possum, I am so utterly sorry for your losses. Please accept my heartfelt sympathy.
Spring
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Oliver Michael 10.09.07 our beautiful boy.
My sweet boy Harrison born sleeping 06.10.06 - 36wk 2days
Harry's twin, my angel 7wks
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October 18th, 2008, 08:19 PM
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Thanks so much everyone. This is a wonderful place of support and wisdom...it also helps with perspective and with regaining strength and hope.
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Me 35, DH 36 plus two gorgeous poodles
2008: March 9 weeks (one ectopic, tube removed);
July IVF:BFN; Sept FET: BFP our loved 8.5 weeks18/10/08; and now
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October 18th, 2008, 08:24 PM
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Oh Possum I am so incredibly sorry the loss of your angel. Please be kind to yourself.
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October 18th, 2008, 09:09 PM
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So sorry for your loss..
My thoughts are with your and your DH..
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pcos
1 x iui (due failed IVF cycle), 9 ivf-icsi, 4 fet
12 weeks apr 07
ex minniemouse..new year..new name..let's hope it brings me more luck!!
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October 18th, 2008, 09:16 PM
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A baby is one thing the world adores, And the best part of all is this one is all yours!
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awww hunni im so sorry 
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October 18th, 2008, 09:55 PM
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I am so very sorry for the losses of your precious babies, Possums.
Thinking of you at this sad time and sending you lots of .
Devon
xxxx
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October 18th, 2008, 10:14 PM
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Very sorry to hear of your loss and thinking of you.
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October 18th, 2008, 11:08 PM
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"Time reveals the future at it's own pace"
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Possums, my heart is breaking for you sweetheart. I know how much you wanted and loved this little baby.
My thoughts are with you and your DH. Please take care of each other and if there is anything you need, please ask.
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October 19th, 2008, 07:49 AM
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Mother Is The Name For God On The Lips and Hearts of All Children ~ The Crow
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possums - I am so sorry to hear this
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October 19th, 2008, 09:37 AM
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Dear Possums,
I was sad and devastated to hear of your loss.
Please take care of yourself and DH and I will be thinking of you.
xxx Sue xxx
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Started TTC Dec 2005
 Baby Girl Lily Due 10 May 2009
3 MC May 2006, D&C April 2007, IVF MC May 2008
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