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October 22nd, 2008, 06:04 PM
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Fiona. I am very sorry for your loss. It has been a long journey for you. I hope the road gets easier and smoother for you very soon 
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October 22nd, 2008, 09:54 PM
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I'm sorry Fiona
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DD 24/03/01 & DS 26/11/02
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October 23rd, 2008, 07:11 AM
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Thanks everyone for your kind words.
I had my D & C yesterday and that all went fine.
I feel better today than I did yesterday, and better yesterday than I did the day before. I can now think about my miscarriage without crying. Maybe today I can talk about it without bursting into tears.
I am going to go back to work on Monday. I'm looking forward to it (not the work that will be waiting for me though!), being busy and getting a bit back to normal.
Husband and I had a good chat last night and we are not going to stress about getting pregnant again for at least 12 months. That worked really for us last time, and when it happened it was a gift. If it happens and I fall pregnant, then great. But apart from lots of sex and getting fit, we won't be taking part in any fertility treatment.
Thank again for all of your kind words.
Fiona
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October 23rd, 2008, 08:57 AM
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Fiona, I'm so sorry for the loss of your little one
Sounds like you and DH and moving towards a pretty good place, in spite of everything that has happened to you.
Good luck - you are being very brave. Enjoy your weekend and I hope Monday isn't too hectic for you at work - but hectic enough to keep you nice and busy 
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October 23rd, 2008, 11:55 AM
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Fiona so sorry for your loss, take care of you...glad you and your DH have discussed a way to move forward. My heart goes out to you as I know what you are going through...I had my D&C on Tuesday and am back at work and finding it tough going to be honest, but at least it is some normality as you say.
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October 23rd, 2008, 02:00 PM
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Join Date: Jul 2007
Location: Cairns
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so sorry for your loss take time to heal physically and emontionally
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October 23rd, 2008, 02:37 PM
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oh fiona, i'm so sorry.
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October 23rd, 2008, 07:08 PM
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Join Date: Jul 2004
Location: Perth
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So sorry to hear of your loss
Sending you lots of strength right now.
I wish you all the best for the future.
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October 23rd, 2008, 08:11 PM
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Oh Fiona, I am so sorry you have to go through this, I am sending lots of positive to help you get through this, I know how you feel. Just take care of yourself and DH.
Shell xo
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Mum to Ellie, my beautiful Cavalier puppy!
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