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October 21st, 2008, 05:14 PM
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My pregnancy is no more
I don't really know what to say. Yesterday at 6 weeks and 6 days I went for an OB appointment. She did a routine scan and couldn't find a heartbeat. She said there were irregularities with the sac, but I wasn't really listening at that point.
I am going in for a curette tomorrow. I don't think I could hack letting the miscarriage happen naturally.
I've been quite sad. Husband came back from interstate where he was working this week and will be with me tomorrow. Mum burst into tears when I told her, and Dad was also upset. My brother has just gone to London and I don't know how to tell him. This would have been their first grandchild / nephew and with my brother being gay I'm their best hope, so to speak.
I guess it just wasn't our time. It took us 2 years to fall pregnant. I have PCOS so we knew it would take a while. We hadn't been stressing about being pregnant, counting cycles or anything. It was so lovely when it happened.
The nearly two weeks we thought we were having a baby were lovely. A lovely surprise, perfect timing for work and everything just falling into place. oh well.
Fiona
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October 21st, 2008, 05:16 PM
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Oh, and I should thank everyone her for their advice over the past few weeks. Just the little things have been great.
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October 21st, 2008, 05:22 PM
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Oh Fiona!  I am so sorry honey! Don't know what to say, but just want to send you heaps of  I too have PCOS and have been TTC for months. I won't say I know how you feel because I don't, but I DO know that it hurts.
Don't be so hard on yourself. It really wasn't up to you - these things have a mind of their own. Just hang in there, hun. Hope your DH is with you soon. I will be thinking of you.
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October 21st, 2008, 05:26 PM
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I'm so sorry for your loss . My thoughts and prayers are with you.
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October 21st, 2008, 05:26 PM
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Always remember you're unique... just like everyone else.
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Oh Fiona, I'm so sorry  Take care, mate.
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October 21st, 2008, 05:48 PM
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I'm so sorry for your loss Fiona. I'm glad your husband will be with you tomorrow so you can comfort each other. Big hugs to you and your family.
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Jazmin DOB 15/07/04 Charlotte DOB 26/12/05 Loralei DOB 23/09/08 
Our baby boy  DOB 28/07/07 (18 weeks) EDD 28/12/07
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October 21st, 2008, 05:58 PM
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I am so sorry Fiona.
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October 21st, 2008, 06:02 PM
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Fiona,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I have been there 3 times before and know exactly how it feels.
I also have PCOS,IR and have trouble falling pregnant and have tried lots and lots of things.
If you ever want to chat, please don't hesitate in contacting me by PM.
xxx Sue xxx
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 Baby Girl Lily Due 10 May 2009
3 MC May 2006, D&C April 2007, IVF MC May 2008
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October 21st, 2008, 06:02 PM
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we got a wii and a wii fit what a workout...
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is your dr 100% I didn't see a :heart: till I was 7 weeks 3 days along I had had 2 scan earlier I had given up hope...
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October 21st, 2008, 06:38 PM
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Yeah. We had a heartbeat at our previous early scan. After my OB did a scan in her rooms I was sent upstairs for a proper one which confirmed the diagnosis.
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October 21st, 2008, 07:15 PM
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I am so sorry for your loss... We also had been trying, for a year, then got pregnant and had a m/c at 6 weeks... i felt the same as you, there was no reason for it, but these things just happen. Then, six months later we got pregnant again and this time everything is fine... a yr after the first m/c and we are about to have our baby.... i know its hard, but you will be successful with a little bub, just remember that it takes time.
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October 21st, 2008, 07:19 PM
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Baby Tigger is on its way Due April 5th 2009
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Oh Sweetie that is shocking news
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October 21st, 2008, 07:30 PM
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sorry fiona
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October 21st, 2008, 07:34 PM
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Thinking of you hun xo
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October 21st, 2008, 08:03 PM
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Fiona, I'm so sorry.
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October 22nd, 2008, 05:16 PM
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M O D E R A T O R - Miscarriage & Loss
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I am so sorry Fiona... Sending you love and support...
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October 22nd, 2008, 05:30 PM
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I'm so sorry. Noone can explain how hard it is to lose an angel. You must have felt awful at the unltrasound. I was in the same position and it was a terrible time. I came through it and you will too. Take care of yourself
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October 22nd, 2008, 05:40 PM
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Is totally & utterly in love with her 2 children! Who knew you could have so much love to give!!!!
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I'm so sorry for your loss Fiona, sending huge hugs for you.
I found out with my first angel baby at an u/s just like you did, I was 10 weeks & it had taken us 14 months to concieve. It's a massive shock, I really feel for you.
Let yourself cry hun & take care
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